Category Archives for Periscope replays

How do we stop ourselves from success?

When I look at somebody’s Social Media presence, I can instantly see whether they are “hiding” from potential customers of not. There are different factors:

  • Is it easy to contact them?
  • Is there an option to stay in touch?
  • Is there a Call-to-Action on their posts?

Periscope is a new Social Media platform that has been developing rapidly and has 10 million users in 4 months. As somebody who is used to being visible online Periscope has taken me by surprise.  In terms I was shocked to discover that it takes me outside my comfort zone.

I can shoot a video in less than 3 minutes explaining how to use Facebook or any other Social Media platform but it takes me half an hour preparation to run a live broadcast.

What I’ve noticed was that I am afraid of letting down live viewers. Normal people are desperately trying to get more viewers to the live shows but I prefer people watching my scope on the replay.

Periscope is not another platform for me, it has a therapeutic effect on me. It makes me dig deeper and discover where else I am limiting myself?

Where else I stop myself from succeeding?

This is my question to you – Where do you stop yourself from success?

Every Sunday I run reflective scopes looking back to the previous week.

During the last Sunday scope I invited viewers to join me at #sundaysuccess movement where we set our goals for each day to play BIGGER, reach our GREATNESS and STEP UP!

If you want to join follow me on Twitter @ingadeksne  use hashtag #sundaysuccess

If you are on Periscope find me there and follow me @ingadeksne

Let’s take one day a time!

Sometimes you need to fall to be able to rise

Lessons learned after I sprained my ankle and had to rely on other people.

There are some musings around it on my scope from 16 August



I am always up for new experiences but what happened to me last week was outside my “wish list”. For the first time ever in my adult life I fell down in the middle of the street like a clumsy child and sprained my ankle.
On the bright side (if any) I was still able to deliver an interactive Social Media workshop, as I fell on my way to the networking event.
I always find the silver lining in every situation. In this case I struggled to find one.
Yes, I was grateful that it wasn’t broken. Yes, I was enormously grateful to my friend, Gayle, for taking me to the Minor Injury Unit.  I was really fortunate that even a client whose meeting I had to cancel offered to drive across London and bring me a special ankle brace.
But until recently I was very annoyed with the whole situation. I had to be depended on my children, I can’t stand to wait for something I would rather do it quicker myself.
The most annoying part for me was to hear that it must be the case that I needed to slow down and take a rest. I wasn’t annoyed with people who said that I was annoyed with myself. It seemed that I was too slow already and now I had to slow down.
My insights are captured in the scope but I wanted to jot down some major takeaways:
First of all, it was a great lesson in ability to receive. Allowing to be taken care of. Patience.
Secondly, and I think it was the biggest lesson, it was revealed  to me:
It’s about TRUSTING
Trusting that everything will work out. Accept  current reality. Trusting that I will get help and support I need.
Trust that I am able to manage the current circumstances.
It’s not woo woo stuff. It is a very practical approach:
I managed to reschedule my workload.
Learned how to delegate.
Learned to be patient.
Learned to allow to receive.